Membership Application

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You

Identity

Experience

Intent

Verify

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Personal Details

First Name *

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Last Name *

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Username *

Letters, numbers and dots only (min 3 chars)

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Date of Birth *

You must be 18 or older to apply

City / State *

City/State is required

Email Address *

Valid email required

Phone Number

Instagram Handle

Referred by a Member?

Invitation Code

If a member vouches for you, enter the code they gave you — it moves your application to the front of the queue. Leave blank if you don't have one.

About You

I identify as *

Man

Woman

Prefer not to say

Other

Sexuality *

Straight

Gay / Lesbian

Bisexual

Queer

Prefer not to say

Other

Relationship status *

Single

Partnered / Couple

Ethically non-monogamous

Open relationship

It's complicated

Prefer not to say

Other

Applying as *

Individual

Couple

Your Experience

Have you attended lifestyle events before? *

Completely new to this

A few times

Regularly

Very experienced

What types of events interest you? (select all that apply)

Cocktail parties

Themed events

Private dinners

Play parties

Kink / fetish

Pool parties

House parties

Weekend getaways

Which cities are you willing to travel to?

Sydney

Melbourne

Brisbane

Perth

Gold Coast

Adelaide

Newcastle

Hunter Valley

Local only

Tell Us More

Why do you want to join Allure? *

Please tell us why you want to join

What do you bring to the community? *

How did you hear about Allure? *

Anything else you'd like us to know?

Verification Photos

Photos are optional, but used for verification purposes only — reviewed by admin and never shared publicly or used outside of the application process. All photos are stored securely.

Without photos, your application is highly unlikely to be approved unless followed up with a video or face-to-face interview.

Face Photo

A clear, recent photo of your face. Sunglasses and masks not accepted.

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Upload Face Photo

JPG, PNG or HEIC · Max 10MB

Body Photo

A full body photo. Swimwear is fine. Used for verification only.

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Upload Body Photo

JPG, PNG or HEIC · Max 10MB

Additional Photos (optional)

Up to 3 more photos if you'd like. These help your peer reviewers get to know you.

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Upload Additional Photos

Up to 3 files · JPG, PNG · Max 10MB each

Agreement & Consent

Please read and agree to the following before submitting your application.

Code of Conduct

Allure is a community built on respect, consent and discretion. All members agree to the following:

Consent is everything. All interactions are consensual. "No" is always respected without question. Any violation of consent results in immediate and permanent removal from the community.

Discretion is non-negotiable. What happens at Allure stays at Allure. Members do not share the identities, stories or experiences of other members outside the community. Photography of other attendees requires explicit consent.

Respect all bodies and identities. Allure is an inclusive space. Discrimination based on gender, sexuality, race, age or body type is not tolerated.

You are responsible for your own wellbeing. Allure encourages safe practices. Members who attend events agree to act responsibly.

Membership is a privilege. Allure reserves the right to revoke membership at any time for conduct that violates our values.

I have read and agree to the Allure Code of Conduct. I understand that violations may result in immediate removal. *

I confirm that I am 18 years of age or older. *

I understand that my application information is stored securely and used only for the purposes of membership review. *

I understand that my application may be reviewed by a panel of existing anonymous members as part of the peer review process.

Digital Signature — Type your full name to sign *

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Received

Your application is in our hands.

Thank you for applying to Allure. Your application has been received and will be reviewed by our team. If you're referred to peer review, selected members will be anonymously asked to evaluate your application.

We'll be in touch via email within 2–5 days.

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